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Most of us suspected it is
true without the studies. If it weren't, why would people,
yes, men too, spend billions of dollars a year just to look
better and/or younger. It is because of what people think
about us, how they judge us, particularly without any other
information to go on. Remember the old adage, "First impressions
are lasting ones". That is probably a bit too simplistic.
But a kernel of truth remains, and we all, particularly if
facing an important first meeting, are anxious to look the
best we can.
Because physically attractive
people can be perceived as more confident, capable and persuasive,
appearance can mean a lot to one's career and, hence, financial
future. It is frequently the career issue that brings people
to seek some surgical alteration. Men, more frequently, give
career reasons for seeking the services of a cosmetic surgeon.
But, women, particularly those in the public eye or in the
boardroom, are increasingly having cosmetic surgery in order
to appear more vital and energetic for job reasons. The secondary
gain, of course, is the boost to self-confidence and ready
to meet any challenge' look that can pay off in any setting.
While our public image is very important, just as important,
or more so, is our self image. How do we feel about ourselves--our
abilities, our place in the scheme of things, etc., and, yes,
our appearance. In a world that rewards good looks, it is
understandable that self concept is somewhat connected to
one's physical being. While this may be the case, social science
tells us that, in general, self-esteem is not, and this is
indeed fortunate. So few of us are born with the human perfection
celebrated in fine paintings and sculpture. But 20th century
medicine and technology have given us the tools to redefine
human anatomy in truly remarkable ways, and access to those
procedures is no longer the exclusive right of the rich and/or
famous. This year, more that 2 million Americans, women and
men, will make a decision about the way they look and feel
through cosmetic surgery. Some will do so to improve the form
or contour of a part of their face or body; others simply
want to hold back the aging process. Everyone just wants their
outward appearance to match their young and attractive inner
'self'.
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